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I read a blog post today that made me think about how being rejected helps to shape you as an individual. Unfortunately that post did not allow comment, thus my musings here. It spoke not of romantic rejection but of the rejection of a personal creation. In that instance it was something turned down by a publisher.
Luckily I have not suffered the same rejection, I have only dabbled when writing. I have had the odd letter published in newspapers and when I was in my 20’s I wrote to a magazine with my views on infertility wishing to remain anonymous. When asked by that magazine to be named I turned it down and thus I rejected them. At the time remaining nameless was absolutely necessary for me.
I have encountered job rejection, though not too recently. When younger, I moved on quickly and easily. As I got older it took longer to get over it but eventually one does and often it can lead to something better.
I had my fair share of romantic rejection in the long and distant past (who didn’t?). At times I thought my love life would be over forever (woe oh woe!). I kissed a few frogs before finding my prince unexpectedly, and we are still together many, many moons later.
I had never particularly thought of having something I’d made (or created) being rejected. Yes, I have knitted, sewn, painted things for Table Sales or for gifts. Some things haven’t sold and I understand others weren’t as appreciated as I hoped they would be. I guess you could of call those as being ‘rejected’. In fact sometimes the things I loved most were the things others didn’t like at all!
Rejection is part of life. It happens to us all. It’s how we deal with it that makes and shapes us. Family, friends and a strong word to oneself helps. There is no time limit to picking yourself up and feeling better. It’s understanding why it happened and how you get past it. It’s embracing the new opportunity you have been given. It is a lesson to be learned at any stage, at any age. We can all flourish after rejection.
Busy few days. Inspired by https://shirleycyeung.wordpress.com/ amongst others I have started by first top down knitted item and I LOVE IT ! Having tried once before and failed badly, I choose small, a new baby project from Ravelry.com – All-In-One Sleeveless Baby Top (6 months) & (9 – 12 months) by marianna mel With a little help from a YouTube video on understanding construction I totally get it now.
Here’s a little bit of my progress. It’s small but more projects going on at the same time.
I have also finished another baby top – bottom up construction – needs a little steaming and a button, not as pleased with the button band as I should be, hopefully that will steam out a little.
NaKniCromo on Ravelry.com – it’s take a lot of thinking about my dream project (Day 16) – not sure I have just one, just an image of several. I guess premium yarns, dreams to knit without hiccups, perhaps at least one repeat of an item knit a few years ago. Oh, and of course, the price of the wool would be irrelevant or it would have been free!
Day 17 – Dream Tools – I favour Knit Pro Symfonie needles, rainbows even when knitting with boring yarn! Day 18 – Technique I would like to master – I would like to be more adventurous with cables, though at the moment I have so much I want to knit that I choose more simple patterns that seem a lot quicker than the fantastic complicated cables I drawl over. Day 19 – More Yarn or Less yarn – More yarn, always more yarn of course. I am working on reducing my stash, whether knitting it or selling some to buy more.
Day 20 – Today – Favourite Tip or Trick – It’s ok to rip something back, don’t consider it wasted time, consider it a learning curve. Also, mattress stitch, once learned I have never gone back to running stitch or oversewing seams.
And a little sewing – remember the last post – beige and pink circles with sewing pins. They turned into these doughnuts! And now they are available to purchase at a little lovely cafe, The Teashop at Downe, Kent. I hope customers popping by for a tea and cake will fancy taking a Calorie Free/Sugar Free cake home for later!
So as you see, a busy few days here.
This sparkly little toddler bolero was started in March and finished in April – that’s almost a record for me! I actually knitted the pieces quickly (it is a simple pattern and oh how I love making short sleeves!) but I procrastinated over the sewing up and as usual other projects popped up. Unfortunately this is not a great photo – snapped in haste before it went off to it’s new home.
So that’s one less WIP in my pile! Yay! Tomorrow it’s back to reviewing another WIP before I knit or sew other ‘stuff’!
I have taken a little break this week from lacy knitting and ‘rediscovered’ an ongoing patchwork project which I have been dipping in and out of for about eight or nine years! This started off in my head as a cushion but I actually love making these these carded hexagons (reminds me of my grandmother teaching me how), so it’s progressed to a sofa throw and is now to become a bed throw, though it will be a while before it is finished and that’s totally ok for me. I like organic crafts and a change is as good as a rest. It uses mostly fabric from my stash with a little added here and there. I am sure I will be back to knitting soon.
I visited a friend’s mother yesterday. She has been stitching for most of her 75 years. I envy her houseful of patchwork throws and cushions. She even has one that was her own mother’s. Maybe one day someone might envy my own houseful of handicrafts. Wouldn’t that be a wonderful thing?
Oh despair! I recently started another new project – yes, I know I told myself and everyone here that I would not start something new until I had more finished projects .. there was a good reason for this one though and I used yarn from my stash which justified it.
I had a five hour car journey ahead of me. I thought I’d stretch myself, try something a little different. ‘What could go wrong?’ Ha! Lots it turns out!
My latest WIP had got to the stage of sewing up. Who can sew up knitting in a car? If there is anyone who can, please give me hints on how to keep pieces straight on my lap and not lose marker pins and sewing needles in the footwell – I am all ears. Note, I’d be the passenger not the driver, of course! I chose a new project over the sewing up this time.
I hadn’t made anything lacy in a very long time and realised early on it’s probably because I prefer simple knits. I am using a vintage pattern but am not using vintage cotton and I am adjusting size and shaping. The gauge is slightly off (it grows in length but the width seems ok). I am making it longer than the pattern says so I did two borders rather than one. I went wrong a lot, ripped it back, reknit it. I did not mark off some rows as I knitted, I counted wrong. You name it, I did it! The yellow lines are lifelines, thank goodness I knew about those and had spare yarn with me (of course, I never travel with the bare minimum, not only in my craft bag).
I am now onto the armhole shaping. I am a triangle, a lot less wide at the shoulder than Mrs Average (who is Mrs Average, by the way?). Therefore narrowing the shoulder line involves more counting. Whilst the main body lace is easier than the border, knitting when weary means another lifeline after going wrong again, missing out a row, losing a stitch several rows back (how did I not notice? possibly a missed YO somewhere). I think this may be one of those projects that will take a long time.
Note to self, future car journeys, knit small and easy! Our final destination was to our house in France. We had a glorious weekend of sunshine and R&R, despite the knitting calamity on the way.
Since then, we had a wedding to go to back here in the UK. These fairy lights are just a snippet of the day I wanted to share here. Fantastic day, lovely party, love a wedding!
The Spring Knitting and Stitching Show at Olympia is about to begin. I have a trip there this Friday (aka tomorrow!). It promises a plethora of stalls and friends and I intend to browse and ooh and aah at what’s on offer, choose a few purchases carefully, not buy in excess but buy better. I have said this before, in different words, then come home with a lovely pile of yarn/fabric, awash with ideas and then spent a long time admiring my ‘pile’ before diving in or indeed ‘rediscovering’ that same untouched pile months later. I have realised I sometimes haven’t chosen enough of something for a particular project, or have been taken in by bargains or opted for a print that I wouldn’t usually go for as it doesn’t suit me or my home. Today I hope to make plans for what I might actually need or use. Theories are just great!
We aren’t attending any workshops this time but it will be on the agenda for another visit. We were tempted by macrame – that’s one thing never tried but I have memories of my Mum and her Girl Guides making pot holders. I have just been given a lovely macrame book I shall give it a whirl at home one day soon. Whoever knew macrame might come back into fashion?! Take a look on the High Street (if you still have one). There is macrame and crochet everywhere!
Show and tell next time.
I have been truly wiped out with a heck of a cold for the last couple of weeks so knitting, crafting and blogging has taken a back seat. Sadly this even included my birthday and all the plans I had surrounding it – so things got cancelled and reworked and put off. On top of this hubby has gone off for a two week business trip (after my birthday, he was here for that at least) – so no-one’s been home to make me hot lemon and honey and generally fuss (he might think this a good thing!). Thank goodness for the bolstering of good friends, I thank you, you know who you are.
So at last I am almost back to feeling ticketty-boo (quoting from a 2001 film I caught yesterday!*) and I am almost back to crafting too so you may see more from me on here over the next couple of weeks.
When unwell knitting patterns and yarn would not play ball. Thank goodness I’d just finished the last hat I was making but it went off to it’s new home without a photo snapped. So today picking needles back up I am not nagging myself that I should be returning to a larger half-done project and using part of my stash means I can restock sooner.
The Great British Sewing Bee is back on TV as well so at least there has been some sewing inspiration albeit no sewing action. Who else has been admiring the contestants progress? Will anyone guess who might win overall? I know it’s early days but … I am already thinking Leah or Jen. It was sad to see Ben go but maybe his talents lie in fabric design rather than fabric manipulation? Just my opinion, I am no expert and enjoy the show as entertainment only.
Happy crafting to all.
*2001 Film, Crush with Andie McDowell, incredibly girly film. I realised I was watching the outfits just as much as the story. How I wish I could sew better and I would love to try a bit of millinery one day.
I am still using up my yarn stash making hats BUT at least I am thinking about those other projects and can feel one particular one calling out to be finished. I shall reveal all here over time!
Today it’s another Adriafil yarn called Attimo. It’s lovely to work with apart from the fluff shedding over me and the carpet.
I used to work in a yarn shop that sold Adriafil about six years ago. The Italian rep used to come in and he was so dapper in his sharp suit and his after shave smelt divine! It didn’t take much to make us girls swoon then!
I added Attimo to my stash when it was sold off at end of season. This is leftover from previous projects again. These hats are going to make heads very warm and toasty.